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Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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As far as sex is concerned, he gets to initiate it whenever he wants; any time you don’t happen to be in the mood, he can take care of himself. See the section Beyond the Bedroom for information on some of the wider changes that male chastity can usher in, if you so desire.

Very sorry for the long delay but the site is not dead and you will see a lot of improvements coming. As soon as you lock your man into a chastity device, his ability to continue with all these convenient activities (activities that come to him as naturally as scratching, and that probably include a lot of scratching) is going to go away.Every monogamous relationship includes two people, either of whom is free to introduce new ideas, and either of whom is free to turn these ideas down.

He can come out to his wife or lover, trusting that she will appreciate his honesty, understand his submissiveness, accept him for who he really is, and perhaps even help him find what he needs. So after a while, the fact that he is locked into a chastity device will fade into the background – but for him, at least, it will seldom disappear completely. She has since played the keyholding role with me off and on, but has enjoyed it so much that she commented how glad she was in having the idea to purchase a chastity device after reading Ms. For example, even allowing for Q-Tips and an adjustable shower, you’ll still need to make sure he’s regularly unlocked so that he (and the device) can be thoroughly clean. Alternatively, if you wish to reassure him, you could touch or fondly whatever is reachable (which might just be the enclosing metal or plastic at this point) and tell him that you’ll miss his penis and wish it wasn’t necessary to keep it confined for so long (but that it’s for his own good).

In other words, what’s not in it for you right now: ● Do you spend a lot more time and effort pleasing him, than he spends pleasing you?

It's matter of fact but also very reassuring that keyholding is all about us Ladies and we can do it our way! In fact, a submissive man may become excited simply at the sight (or even the thought) of male chastity device, and this can cause a problem with fitting it, because a tube or cage that’s small enough to be worn discreetly (and to inhibit erection) will certainly be too small to slip over your man’s erect penis. Sooner or later, he will figure out that he’s controlling you, rather than the other way around, and then the magic will stop working for him. For a man, there’s a huge difference between a relationship where he’s simply not getting as much sex as he would like, and one with limited male orgasms but plenty of erotic heat. His own preference might be to serve you in some sexual way, but you don’t have to allow that unless, or until, you’re ready.The exercises do not conflict with one another, so the most natural and efficient approach is to conduct both at the same time.

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